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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The folks interpreting “what did you learn” as “what did you do wrong” are hardcore projecting. I’ve learned significant things in life from experiences that helped me grow, both positive and negative. That’s how I would interpret that question. OP has every right to understand this guy’s past if he wants a future (or even a present) with her.

OP if he can’t engage in respectful conversation about his past and isn’t helping you understand, he’s not ready to date.

Re: the “baggage” term, come on people. We’re grownups, we all have it. [/quote]

Op here. Exactly thank you. There are some ultra sensitive people on this board. I am very direct with my questions when getting to know someone and I don't mind talking to him about any past relationships. I believe all interactions and people we meet teach us life lessons. And yes kids are baggage for a childless person because you're dealing with the ex spouse. This man isn't my only option but I'm giving him a chance because I like him. I have reservations though. [/quote]

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