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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does he have inattentive ADHD, learning disorders like dyslexia, or autism? He should get evaluated if there's even the mere whisp of a concern, OP.

My two bio kids are 5 years apart, and my oldest was born with special needs: ADHD/ASD/low processing speed, and other issues. We always knew the youngest would catch up with him at some point, and she did.

However they're both closely bonded, because the oldest isn't prideful, and the youngest doesn't gloat. They actually support each other nicely. I would tell your kid to mind how he comes across.

The most important thing I ever did as a parent was to raise them to do their best effort.... regardless of what that effort achieved. [/quote]

Yes, we are getting him assessed. There isn't a lot in common in terms of interest. The older of the two is a late bloomer and still finding his footing- not any interests or passions outside of video games.

It's not just about dinner conversations. It's about award ceremonies and ECs, time commitments etc. End of year awards ceremonies are coming up and we already have 3 commitments in May for my bio kiddo and none for our oldest. The presence is undeniable and obvious.

How can I balance situations like this?

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Non-academic kids don't care about other people's academic award ceremonies.  And kids who like gaming enjoy long stretches of time at home.  If you nonchalantly say that you're taking Younger to an evening thing at school and Older can go if he wants or stay home, I'm pretty sure Older won't mind a bit.[/quote]

Thank you for this.[/quote]

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