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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Of course not, and he doesn’t either. You criticized the way he spends his weekends and he felt defensive about it so make an offhand remark. He could have said “keep teens busy and they don’t have time to get into trouble!” and you probably wouldn’t have thought twice about it. That is what he meant.[/quote] Keeping teens busy doesn't guarantee anything. If they really want to do drugs, they'll find a way. Alot of athletes at my school also did drugs [/quote] Agree that keeping teens busy doesn't guarantee anything - they will find a way. However, elite sports are meaningful deterrents. My kid, who is curious to a fault, largely stays out of trouble because he is overscheduled. When he's had free time, he sneaks out and likes to roam the city basically looking for trouble. We provide him with a safe and loving home environment, but he's more Holden Caulfield than a Boy Scout. Also, since a pretty young age, coaches have emphasized the importance of health and nutrition on sports performance, and the idea of not being able to play his sport because he fails a drug test is probably the biggest deterrent he has right now. [/quote]
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