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Reply to "Should I let my husband make the financial decisions? "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Reading between the lines here, you’re clearly a controlling PITA who thinks you’re superior to your husband because you make more money than him, and while you say you trust him you really don’t. You’re never going to let go, ever, so stop pretending. Just keep fighting with your husband about money and continue to make him feel inadequate. That’s the game you’re playing.[/quote] Suggesting that the only way OP's DH can feel "adequate" is for him to be totally in control is commensurate with someone taking OP's very reasonable post and distilling it down to her being a "controlling PITA". Neither are true, but both statements are telling. Real talk: men like you are abusive, want it your way, will try to brow beat women into accepting it, are walking evidence of why women require financial transparency, and rarely remain married (for good reason). Enjoy your dinners for 1. [/quote]
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