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[quote=Anonymous]I would feel bad about this too if I really liked him. 
I learned recently after watching a 30 y/o dating that I need to take risks in today’s dating market.

This woman met a guy she liked a lot, she’s always been in relationships so she focused on him only, they had sex on the second date. She knew he was dating at least one other person (she saw pictures on IG). She said yes whenever he invited her on a date and when he didn’t, she initiated and invited him on dates. She almost lost her mind during the whole time knowing they were not exclusive, and he was a bit aloof but they ended up becoming exclusive. It took about four months. Although she’s very happy now with this guy, she wishes she had gone on dates with other people at the beginning as it would have spared her a lot of agony.

The lesson for me is to enjoy dating without pressure. I’m not someone who will have sex on the third date but as I get older, I might not get these opportunities anymore, so if I like someone (I’m picky) and there is good chemistry then I might go for it without any regrets.

I figure men need time to process the fact that they want to br exclusive with someone. You can have fun, be patient, and perhaps get the guy, or self-eliminate and let another person play the game you don’t want to play.[/quote]

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