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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do keep friend's secrets from him. If my friend tells me she's going through a scary divorce and asks me not to tell anyone, it does her no good and me no good to immediately tell
My dh. If someone asks you not to tell, and it has nothing to do with you and your life, I would keep it to yourself. [/quote]

+1.  I do not keep my secrets from him, I keep other people's secrets from him.  [/quote]

OP again. Yes to this. If someone tells me something in confidence then of course I honor that. But this is different. This is something about a random family member and my mom is just embarrassed about it. 
I did tell her I won’t lie if it comes up one day. She then asked why on earth it would come up. And then - if it does come up, just say that she is going through some hard times and I don’t know the details.

Correct me if I’m wrong, mom, but that’s lying.  [/quote]
Then do not lie dummy, say it is private and confidential and you were asked not to share details. My husband would literally say ‘ Ok’ . Are you married to a toddler who cannot take no for an answer?
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