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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know a lot of people were spanked as children and had no psychological damage, but I did. I don't remember it well,[b] but apparently I was pretty traumatized after a spanking incident. I went from being a normal, happy, outgoing kindergartener to being completely shut down, and I never recovered.[/b] No friends, didn't talk to most people, just played on my own, and spent a lot of time zoned out/in my head. Ended up being a total weirdo for most of my life and to this day I haven't really had any close relationships (except my husband). My dad still cries about it 30 years later because he feels so awful about what it did to me.

I ended up working in applied behavior analysis for several years so I have a LOT of tools for dealing with childrens' (and adults'!) behavior without needing to use physical punishment. I've never even needing to consider spanking because I'm able to address the problem in other ways. I do highly encourage all parents to read up on applied behavior analysis since it is so effective and gives you multiple ways of addressing behavior problems.  [/quote]

this is not normal. your problems didn't show up before the incident just like many special needs are discovered when children are in elementary school. doesn't mean that's when they got them.[/quote]

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