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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As Athol Kay writes in The Married Man Sex Life Primer:

“Marriage is at its heart, a sexual relationship.  Without the sex it’s just a legally binding friendship, which is a needlessly complicated way of having a friend.  [b]The basic agreement of being married is to meet each other’s sexual needs[/b] and not to run round getting them met anywhere else.  Both affairs and sexless marriages break that relationship agreement.”[/quote]

SO when one spouse wants sex and the other could die happy never having sex again, whose needs get met?
"Compromise" and make the one who never wants to have sex, have sex just a few times a month?  Well, that's doesn't seem to be meeting their needs and wishes.
According to this board, the one wants sex gets their needs met by pressuring the one who is happy never having sex again.[/quote]

Mostly the issue is the high libido partner wanting it 3 times a week and they think 3 times a month is not a good compromise hence the partner threatening to "get it elsewhere".... Divorcing.... Or forcing the issue and the partner complying out of fear.... That is the real issue they is a little rapey or emotional abuse due to entitlement.
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