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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If there's nothing medically wrong and she isn't depressed and you're a cool guy who is way decent and helps out, you need to realize there's nothing you can fix here. The reality is she's bored of sex and other things like TV or sleep or reading are more appealing to her than more of the sex she's been having forever and which she no longer enjoys. That's all that's going on for most sexless marriages. A spouse who simply isn't interested in sex because it bores them. [/quote]

This is so true.  When a spouse loses libido, short of it being a medical issue, there is nothing you can do to create it. At best you might get her to have sex out of gratitude or duty, but it will never again be out of desire.  I'm in the same boat and it sucks.[/quote]

Yes. And many spouses who don't want sex will say "I've lost my libido" as if it's some medical issues but it really almost never is. It's sheer boredom and disinterest in having sex. That's it. And a lot of marriages could probably be saved if the disinterested spouse could just a) admit that and b) release their partner from the responsibility of being sexually faithful to a partner who is no longer interested in sex. Open your mind, allow your spouse to seek physical intimacy elsewhere, and preserve the marriage as best as you can that way. It's when you hold your spouse to ironclad vows of fidelity but refuse to have sex with them that these problems get bad.[/quote]

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