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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes we have. We said if either one of us are unhappy in the marriage we'll talk to each other first and figure out how to work through it.[/quote]
I think pretty much every married couple feels that way in the beginning.  But, sometimes, push comes to shove, and communication can break down.

I'm just saying, don't look at this marriage through rose colored glasses or be so naive.  My DH and I know that however slim a chance, one of us could cheat one day.  Obviously, we hope this never happens, but I am not naive enough to think that divorce could never happen to us. Right now, I'd be shocked if it did, but never say never, as they say.[/quote]

I'm not trying to be naive, I just truly think things are different. Yeah I know divorce is possible in any marriage. What's wrong with being positive and working to make and my marriage strong?[/quote]

Nothing is wrong with it, but your attitude comes across as "it won't happen to me".  And it really doesn't help that you created this AMA.  Really, what was the purpose of this AMA if not to flaunt it, or think you're somehow better than other wives whose husbands have cheated on them?[/quote]

It almost seemed like she was implying the thread would serve as a how-to for other APs to win the prize and become wives. She has so much to teach the rest of us.[/quote]

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