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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think DH is disappointed that I don't cook dinner as part of the SAH gig. I hate meal planning and cooking. DS is 12 mos. He eats simple, decinstructed meals. I eat whatever is around. Cheese and crackers for lunch if I want. I have no expectation that DH produce dinner for me. I didn't have that expectation when we were both working, either. I don't have a bunch of school-aged kids where we all need to sit around as a family. I really hate this expectation that I'm supposed to prepare food for a grown man now that my job is raising our child. I was thinking of cooking tonight-we have this bag of potatos on the counter. If it were just me, I'd have a baked potato and a Diet Coke. But since I'm cooking for a "family" I have to produce something more ambitious - a baked potato "bar" or whatever. No thanks. I'm want to cook what I want to eat and not cater to what DH likes. Today he came home and asked what I made-I told him "nothing", and he went to the grocery store after working all day, and I don't really care. [/quote] Wow. Just wow. You are useless. It's almost like abuse. Get a job if you are so useless. Humans need food and shelter. These are the two most basic needs. A potato or cheese doesn't cut it for feeding a family. Especially when you are HOME ALL FUCKING DAY LONG. I'm a lawyer mom and I have cooked my family a hot meal almost every day of my 6-year marriage. I'd say your days are numbered as far as DH is concerned. My WAM sister in law does nothing like you and the whole family talks about how horrible of a,mother and wife she is. Her husband secretly told everyone he wants a divorce asap.[/quote] Agreed. OP is too precious on her child and uses that as an excuse to shirk her other responsibilities or not do the chores she doesn't deem fun. She's a SAHM for crissake. Put some food on the table.[/quote]
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