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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Kids are better off with bio parents, and everyone knows this including the pro-adoption crowd. [b]That is why adoptive parents always live in fear that their "child" will want to find their real parents[/b] and will love their real parents better, because they know in their hearts that bio families have a profound bond. As a woman who has carried and given birth to a child the whole idea of adoption fills me with a cold dread. I honestly think any woman who's done the same would be against adoption bc it is just so unthinkable to me. [/quote] Not true at all. I've told my daughter if she wants to look for her natural parents - I am more than willing to help her. Is it hard for me to think about? Sure. Is it the right thing to do? Absolutely.[/quote] Calling the birthparents "natural" parents is bizarre - [b]so you are the unnatural parent? [/b]We have an open adoption - nothing to be scared of as we know the good and bad as does our child.[/quote] my adoptive parents were pretty unnatural [/quote]
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