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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, don't be so sure that your daughter and her friends haven't been up to their own inappropriate behavior with this boy and his friends. [/quote]

I found it very suspect that she had no idea who any of the boys were, yet they go to her school.

Your daughter might not be telling the entire truth here.[/quote]

Her middle school has almost 1,000 students in two grades. You may find it suspect, but that's your problem.

She was crying when she called to tell me. She is very upset, even though she reacted immediately and appropriately. I discussed it with her, how she felt about it, etc. I didn't ask for advice on how to deal with her. I'm confident in the discussions we've had today and prior.

I'd like to find a way to let his parents know. [b]Will the principal contact them if it was off of school property[/b]?

I don't understand why everyone needs to rewrite the story to suit their own needs. The assumptions and accusations about my child and I are nuts. It says a lot more about you than it does about us. [/quote]

:roll:

No one is rewriting history. You never gave that information. Trust me, what you have given says a hell of a lot about you.[/quote]

Nice!  Blame the victim.  Literally.  
I feel like "Missoula" should be required reading for all of these idiots who are blaming OP and her daughter.[/quote]

Again, there are degrees of punishment. The OP was saying she wanted to go to the police. This is a learning opportunity for a 12 yr old boy, no harsher consequences. You're part of the problem by overreacting.[/quote]

How am I overreacting?  I think that people have generally UNDERREACTED to sexual assault against girls.  The reverse hasn't traditionally been a problem, now has it?  I wouldn't go to the police (unless it happened again, in which case I might).  But I damn sure would go to the principal and expect real punishment.[/quote]

In general i think people have OVERREACTED to sexual assault, where every little look or word is now sexual assault. Look at the Amherst story and the dubious sulkowicz story and Jackie Coakley. People like you are the problem. Instead of teaching young boys what appropriate behavior is, you want a heavy hand approach to lock them all up. I agree with punishment from the principle btw, but I disagree with overkill. [/quote]

If you honestly believe that in general sexual assault has been overreacted to, then you have absolutely no credibility. [/quote]

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