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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The man was married too, so he doesn't have much incentive to blab[/quote]

Maybe not an incentive,[b] but if he was packing condoms on a business trip and banging drunk married women then this ain't his first rodeo[/b]. It's only a matter of time until he's at a bar (which we know he's into) with a colleague and has a couple too many, and he'll brag about that one time in Geneva when he nailed Donna from the DC office and she was a wild one.  "But don't tell anyone."

And of course this isn't a secret most people keep. Folks love gossip and dirt. It'll get out among people you know. May not make it back to DH, but people will find out and you'll be widely knowns as that Donna chick who totally banged Bjorn over in Switzerland at the product launch party.

Heck, every horn job married guy in your office will suddenly start sniffing around you.[/quote]

I had the same thought. I'm surprised it took so long for someone to mention it.  I could easily see how the gossip starts because your married co-worker is known for hooking up with someone during these work trips.  As a female, I would want to know what married male co-workers are on the prowl so I don't innocently think ohhh no he isn't flirting, he's married and find myself in an uncomfortable situation.  So I could all too easily see how I would listen to gossip about it or ask, he seems a little cozy, is that how he normally acts....  Anyway, unless no one saw you, I'm sure someone suspects, especially if he normally has a special friend during these gatherings and never the same one twice.[/quote]

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