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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]SAHM you don't want to know how I spend my days. Just very slowly. I only do things I like and feel like doing. It is a surprise to me when I have to rush. Don't like to so I take it easy. Spend a lot of time on vacation and at the beach, with my family and riding my horse. Takes a lot of time to do these things at a leisurely pace. Worry about money, no not so much. Our equity just keep growing. Lots of hobbies and I sculpt. Love to cook.[/quote]

I'm the one that told people to "own it". Honestly, this is the type of SAHM I like. Keeping up her interests, not complaining about how hard her life is compared to everyone else. It's the kind of WOHM I like, too!

And, yes, we all Parent our children. The thing I hate the most is when a SAHM says something like "My job is TWENTY-FOUR HOURS!".....because working Moms don't come home to children and have Parenting also. We *all* work 24 hours.

And we should *all* be taking time for ourselves in order to remain interesting people.

And, lady, you had 5 kids. I will assume with you either planned them or were dumb about birth control while satisfying your wonderful sex life. I don't feel bad for you. Yes, most people don't have 5 kids.

In any case, the thread topic is just asking if you're worried about your finances, really. [/quote]

Huh? I was the one who said to own it. But I agree with you :)
Sure, SAHM of 5 kids IN SCHOOL, I have breaks at work. But I'm not a martyr listing how busy I am online (mail runs.. Wtf? How inefficient are you?)
And the sex stuff ( mentioning it twice in as many posts and saying "yummy" when you're probably in your 50s? Transparently desperate and bizarre.[/quote]

Why do you feel she needs to rationalize how she spends her day.  Your strange need to berate another woman for making different choices than you is what is desperate and bizarre.  You may want to examine why you gave such anger towards SAHMs, it is not normal.[/quote]

I don't have anger towards SAHMs at all.  My mom was one and I adored her.   I didn't post the comment about "lady you had 5 kids."  All I'm saying is that it's weird that pp lists what she does all day in some kind of weird attempt to justify being busy.  I admit I have time to myself at work.  I just don't get why she insists that she's so busy getting the viola fixed that her existence is justified.  It's odd.[/quote]

She wrote that post because other posters (you?) questioned how SAHMs stayed busy other than by going to the gym.  You need more self-examination as to why you think she has to "justify her existence" and less time spent judging the actions of others.   It will make you happier, I promise.[/quote]

Can you read?  I didn't ask that, and I said she doesn't need to justify it.[/quote]

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