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Reply to "Partner and I can't agree on a surname after marriage and now I'm wondering if marrying him is even worth it."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Are you also into gender norms? Did you want an engagement ring? Does he pick up the bill more often? Doe he buy you flowers? If you like gender norms traditions when they benefit you, then you have to accept ones that matter to him too. [/quote] This is a fair point. Expectations based on traditional gender norms go both ways. [/quote] Similar to how these women always say that want an "involved" father, but cannot let go and must dictate every facet of child rearing. What they really want is someone to do the things they do not want to do without complaint, but give them all autonomy and authority otherwise. In other words: childish. [/quote] PP that's another topic. OP has already clarified she isn't expecting traditional gender norms. She we have no reason to believe reciprocation is an issue.[/quote]
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