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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I were talking last night and I’d love a third-party perspective.

Our 17-year-old son is planning to have around 7 friends stay at our beach house for five nights this summer, and we’re more than happy to host. I’ll plan on having breakfast, lunch, and dinner for the boys (and probably ordering pizza one night), plus having snacks around etc… though I’m sure the boys will also grab food when they’re out.

My question is: would it be tacky to ask each parent to Venmo a small amount to help cover food for the week? If so, how much  I am leaning towards yes. DH brought it up- I wouldn’t think twice about covering it if it were a one-time thing, but last summer we had kids in and out nearly every weekend. I love having the kids there and am always happy to have extra kids around so I don’t want this to imply any different. [/quote]

Haven't read through this entire thread, but I think it's how you present this to the other parents.

If you basically say my kid wants to have friends stay at the beach house, we are fine with that and us parents will be there just to make sure the kids don't do anything stupid (but aren't really there in full hosting capacity), but the parents will be out doing their own thing a bunch of the time...it's basically the equivalent of beach week (but without the craziness associated with beach week).  You are giving them a free house, but everything else is on the kids to figure out.  You don't have to ask for any contribution, but you make it clear to your kid that the group needs to go to the grocery store and buy their food, figure out their own entertainment, etc.

Hate to say it...but if you present as kind of "reluctant" hosts, I think you will still have a ton of appreciative parents letting their kid get access to a beach house for 5 days for free.  Definitely, don't ask for anyone to Venmo you money...but again, make it clear to your kid that you also don't plan to do much except be an adult presence.[/quote]

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