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Your husband and his ex wife are still banging.

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I don’t really care about that, I just want him to give my son a vacation.[/quote]

He doesn’t care about your son. He wanted to sleep with a teenager and you wanted to sleep with a man at least twice your age and your son is an unfortunate byproduct [/quote]

No, that’s not accurate. He was not interested in sleeping with a teenager, and I was not interested in sleeping with an older man. He wanted to remarry and  have a child. [b]He is a wonderful father to our child.[/b] Not all relationships between younger women and older men fit the stereotypes you might assume.[/quote]

But he won't take him on a vacation? Which one is it, OP?[/quote]

He’s not perfect, nobody is perfect. He’s trying to punish us this year by not letting us go on vacation, because we’re upset that he’s going away for theee weeks with his ex-wife. OP[/quote]

Any marriage where one partner spends 3 weeks on vacation with his ex and then “punishes” his spouse for their feelings is extremely unhealthy and manipulative. Exactly the likely outcome you would expect of a 40 year old marrying a pregnant teenager. How else does he punish you for being a bad little girl?[/quote]

I wouldn’t say our marriage is unhealthy. He doesn’t actively punish us, but he does things like prioritize time with his other family and let’s them do whatever  or place restrictions on certain things. When we fight, he gets really angry, and swears. Thankfully, he’s a great dad to our son—he ensures all of his material needs are met and is emotionally present for him. He’s not too strict or too lenient.  OP[/quote]

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