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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You told your father-in-law that your wife wouldn’t be paying back a family loan? No wonder he’s pissed.[/quote]

OP here.  She would not be paying it back with marital income. Since she is now back in school and not earning income that means that I would not be making payments on it with my income.[/quote]

That’s not how debt works. Jesus, I would hate you too.[/quote]

Yes, did you also inform the mortgage company, car payment place, and credit card that you would cease making payments after marriage? I hate to say it, but you sound like a dick.

“We shouldn’t split the bill because you ordered something more expensive than me?” You are not some poor 21 year old. When you are established and well off, you don’t complain about splitting restaurant bills, it is pathetic.[/quote]

Well first of all if someone invites you out the presumption is that they will pay not that they will order a bunch of expensive food and stick you with the bill. If I go out with friends who make less than me especially if I asked them to join me, I pay for them or we go somewhere reasonable. I also don’t order steak while poorer friends are ordering a chicken sandwich then expect them to add $25 (half my steak price) to whatever they expected to pay $8 (half the chicken sandwich price).[/quote]

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