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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It doesn’t matter whether quitting sex is reasonable, justified, the other spouse’s fault, etc. Either way the ethical options available to you are the same. Live with it, open the marriage, or divorce. [/quote]

Divorce is not ethical when there are children involved. It is highly unethical [/quote]

If you believe this, you shouldn't have married for sex. If you married for children, masturbating will not kill you. You did when you were single. You would do it If your spouse were incapacitated. You can do If you have no idea what is going on with them that they don't enjoy sex anymore. But you choose to cheat because you married for sex and want to weaponize the children. [/quote]

How dumb do you have to be to write something like this? No one makes a life long committment to another human being because they plan to be celibate in their marriage. OF COURSE, people get married because, among other things, they want to enjoy safe, fulfilling sex within their marriage. If you turn frigid years down the road and don't want to have sex anymore, open up your marriage or get divorced. You are the problem![/quote]

It doesn’t matter « who »the « problem » is, it doesn’t matter who is ethically right or wrong, if you personally feel that you need sex with another human, any human, not necessarily your spouse, then you need to be the one to file for divorce.

The government doesn’t care who is at fault and you shouldn’t either. Your kids will survive and probably do matter in an atmosphere of openness and honesty. And if it is splitting up the money that’s bothering you, well, that’s just part of moving on. You’ll be happier being able to freely live your life without deception, and so will your spouse.

No one cares whose fault a divorce is. People have their own worries and they don’t spend time thinking about you and your spouse. 
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