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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like Emma’s sister is getting too much heat. She was standing up for Emma. Mike was pressuring her throughout the pods (if I were Mike, Emma would be a huge red flag and vice versa). Even though I don’t say it in public, I feel similarly to Emma’s sister. Not every mom enjoys motherhood. Some of us have kids with special needs and cannot catch a break. [/quote] It's actually so so common! I've heard many parents say the same thing. Being honest about parenthood shouldn't be so controversial, especially when discussing it with someone on the fence. [/quote] In private, sure, on a message board, to friends...That's totally fine, but not on tv for your kids to watch. I think smart people are those like some family members in various reality shows who refuse to come and be on, like Bri's dad, Amber's ex...There is no upside to going on and being judged by strangers, or making hurtful comments like this one by accident or through shady editing by producers.[/quote] It's fine to talk about on TV. Not everyone wants to be hush hush about their very real feelings about parenthood, and that's fine. If it's not something you'd discuss, well that's your life. You don't get to dictate how everyone else lives theirs. [/quote] That’s a selfish perspective. It’s not fine to talk about on TV. She may have the right to her feelings but she needs to understand that broadcasting them out over mass airways might make it back to her children. Imagine if your young child heard that. Sure no one can dictate how you live your life but put your kids feelings first. [/quote] I think lying to people about parenthood is a selfish perspective. Saying parenting is hard is not abandoning your children. She sounds like a great mom. You're taking something personally that wasn't meant for you. [/quote] NP-You are misrepresenting what she said. Nobody would have any issue with a mom saying parenting is hard or talking about all the aspects of motherhood. It's very different from saying out loud on tv that if you could do it again you'd not have your children. [/quote] Not really. The implication of saying "parenthood is really difficult, being childfree is so much simpler and easier" is the same. You just dont like women owning that motherhood isn't always the best choice. Women are allowed to feel that way, and you telling them to STFU is wildly inappropriate. [/quote] We’re not telling her to STFU. We’re saying that you don’t say what she said on national tv where her kids could possibly see it. [/quote] Exactly this. But being empowered to say how you feel no matter who it hurts is peak 2026 feminism. :roll: [/quote] Are you even a woman? Now you're trying to insult feminism? Wtf.[/quote] Insulting feminism is not the same as pointing out the “only my feelings matter” version of feminism in 2026. It’s toxically narcissistic.[/quote] So you're a man trying to mansplain motherhood? GTFOH with that garbage. [/quote]
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