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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just to provide some financial realities. My father had 24/7 in home help managed by an elder care manager and paid $24K a month. My MIL lived in a very expensive assisted living facility selected by my BIL. We questioned that decision. He said he would pay for it if/when my MIL ran out of funds. After 10 years he asked us to chip in. He told us that if we could not share the cost, he would move my MIL to a less expensive facility which seemed cruel to do to a 90 year old women. So we chipped in and over the next 6-7 years we ended up contributing over $250K. Stupid BIL should have listened to us when we questioned his choice originally. [/quote] Should have put her in the dumpy place! You tell ‘em pp![/quote]
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