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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP I am a woman in my 40s, white, petite.[/quote]

So the bi guy bangs both you and your husband?[/quote]

Sometimes both of us, sometimes I get all the attention. It actually opened my eyes how many men are bisexual. [/quote]

This is confusing. Didn’t you just say your husband was straight ? Or it’s a different poster ? 
OP - are you both straight ? [/quote]

I am not the topic starter. I am the one who got dissapointed in group meetings. I am F straight, my partner M bi. [/quote]

In your experience, men who enjoy both types of threesomes MFM and FMF - are they more commonly bisexual ? I can’t imagine being ok watching my partner having sex with someone else unless I was getting engaged with that 3rd person, too [/quote]

I have never done FMF as I am as straight as can be. My partner is bisexual and I knew that from when we just began dating (15 years ago.) With 2 men there is no watching, you always participate. At least in my experience. I never feel left out.  [/quote]

So in these encounters do you watch your man getting pounded in the rear or giving a BJ to some dude? If so, is this enjoyable for you to watch? [/quote]

Yes to both. Me and my partner can please another man, then both men please me. Its a dynamic, not something set in stone (aka two guys just giving bjs to each other.) Its very liberating to not have limits with 2 men that are not afraid to touch each other. [/quote]

So after he the third pleases your husband, does he change condoms going into you ? Aren’t you worried that condoms don’t fully protect ? [/quote]

Yes, condoms at all times! Even for BJs. [/quote]

What’s the point, then? Men hate condoms [/quote]

But they love BJs. [/quote]

They must be men really desperate for any action because it’s not hard to get in just normal dating without condoms [/quote]

Maybe they're married & BJs are harder to come by. [/quote]

Married male, last bj was over 10 years ago. I refuse to ask for one because I know it'll be an unenthusiastic pity bj. If I thought she took some joy in giving me pleasure, then maybe.[/quote]
What’s going on there? Is one or both of you unfit? Where does the resentment come from? I assume there is no emotional intimacy? That’s the key to a woman being in the mood. You have to be interested in each other as people. [/quote]

Some women (me) never enjoy giving BJs and eventually decide to retire from it. I get that it is a bummer for our partners. But it's not uncommon.[/quote]

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