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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got lucky, when I got divorced. My ex-wife got taken care of. She kept the house so my name was off the mortgage, and the house has very high rate of equity. We had investments together and she kept over half, I kept my motel in retirement and everything else thereafter. It ended up working out for me because I can end up buying another house and I sold off some of the assets and stocks that we had when we were married. I also helped start a business with someone and that flourished and I sold my half off. So financially I'm doing pretty well for myself and have a good 401k plus military retirement as a retired officer. I'm glad I got to keep the retirement because that is something that will last until I'm no longer here and my kids get to benefit from my disabled veteran status at the end of the day. I won't ever get remarried again because don't want to put any of that stuff up to be taken away.

Women in the DC area are not really the highest quality of women. There are some great ones but most of the time you're going to end up with a bad catch. The one thing I have learned is that you have to marry the right woman. Otherwise you will be destroyed financially and emotionally. I've seen others leave the divorce with a box of clothes and that's it after their wife cheated on them when they were deployed. At least that didn't happen to me and my ex-wife and I do get along for the most part. Now that the kids are almost out of the house or in college anyway, we don't really interact very much except on rare occasions or some holidays. She's doing her thing and I do mine and I would prefer to keep it that way. The last one that's in the house is 17 years old and has one more year of high school left and the other one is already a junior college.

I look forward to when they're both out of college and can start their own journey and I will certainly be spending my remaining years in Central America or in southern Europe.[/quote]

Dude, look up marital laws. Your pension earned prior to marriage can’t be taken away from you. Only your first wife could as it was earned during long marriage. 
Just so unbelievably uneducated ! [/quote]

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