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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to know what's most important and let the rest go. And know well in advance. You likely feel the same year-after-year. If it's about Christmas, my story is: I let the family know that I was not up to the task of .. anything to do with the tree. Not the buying, set-up, decorating. None of it. Didn't know why. But knew it was my least favorite thing to do. So, I let that be known -- in plenty of time. Weeks ahead. Because I know myself. Not some meltdown last minute. Husband and kids stepped-up because they knew they had to do it or it wasn't happening. No drama. Just fact.[/quote]
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