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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Come on now. I wouldn't have sex if she was in PAIN!!!! Sheesh. We've had sex twice since #2 arrived. Both times were painless! [/quote]

Sorry, OP.  I just don't believe this.  About 90% of women I know had significant discomfort - even if not PAIN with capital letters - the first times they had sex after childbirth, and certainly if the sex is within the first 2-3 mos.  (And I'm betting I've talked to about 2 dozen more ladies about this than you.)  Either your DW doesn't feel like she can communicate this to you or you aren't willing to listen .  "Painless"??? Whatever.  You guys have serious issues.[/quote]

OK, you point may be valid IF you are my DW.  Are you DW?     :roll:[/quote]

I cried from the pain the first time we had sex after our first was born, and DH didn't even notice.  :( 
I was so appalled and felt so disgusted and angry I couldn't talk about it. [/quote]

Are you the same poster that is claiming that OP's DW was in pain too?[/quote]

No, different poster. But, I agree that most women find sex painful while BFing, at least for the first several months. The same hormones that allow women to lactate also cause vaginal dryness. [/quote]

I didn't know that. thanks.  I did notice that DW was drier than usual.[/quote]

It's awful and guess what?  For some of us that never goes away.  Ever.  It makes sex far less pleasant than it was before, frankly.  I know the HD people on here will basically be of the position that you should suck it up because it's "your duty" or whatever, but yeah, if you bothered to ask you'd know this shit.[/quote]

Look lady, you obviously have issues and some anger probably at your DH.  Since I'm sure  (mostly) that you ARN'T my DW, stop pretending to know and speak like what you're saying is FACT in MY situation.[/quote]

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