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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, Sexless wife here.  Oh, I feel you.  We do it 6-8 times per year and have done it less some years.  I too feel that marrying someone LD was a mistake but I will never say so to DH because I know that would be devastating for him.  We too have had "the talk" and written communication and I have had counselin.  The basics will not change.  If you plan to get sexual satisfaction in other ways I think you owe it to your wife to tell her about it.

BTW -- Those who are not HD spouses yoked to LD spouses, please shut up.  I wanted sex during and immediately after three pregnancies, whether I worked or SAHed, breastfed or not.  I want sex at least 300 days out of every year.  Drive is not about what's going on in your life; it's about how sex makes you feel.[/quote]

I haven't read this whole thread, but +1 to this.  I know how tiring it can be to be the only one who initiates.   And I know tired - primary bread winner and mother to two, including an infant.    I love my husband, but if I could change his LD, I would.  I imagine for us that part of it is timing.  I am a morning person, he is very much a night owl.   We can't seem to find a time without the kids that we are both jonesing.  I do know that I don't want to divorce him.  I suppose, to some degree, I have given up because I can't remember how sex makes me feel.  It's been that long ago.[/quote]

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