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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it’s insane to expect people to drop their plans 4 weeks in advance to fly ANYWHERE for a wedding. This is a clear “we hope you can make it, but understand if you can’t” situation.[/quote]
I don't think she would drop her plans with more notice. This birthday dinner has been planned for months already and is still a month away.[/quote]

Because grown adults do make plans in their lives, especially with friends and family.  And they don't change them on a whim because someone else rushes in at the last minute and says "hey I expect you to fly 24 hours+ and cancel your plans because I'm special and you must attend".  They RSVP No and wish them well.  If the BIL actually cared about others they would schedule this with 9-12 months notice so people can actually attend[/quote]

They don't care about the OP coming or not, but she is damned determined to make it about her - her birthday, her party, her band, her dinner,  blah blah. All she has to do is say "no" but wants to create all this drama around even being asked to go to a wedding. A second wedding not in a Cathedral to boot. How dare they. Seems like they only care if her husband comes and she throwing a tantrum. [/quote]

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