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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's both a societal and parenting thing. If you watch 3 year olds interact, they are simply curious about everything. But by 13, the parents have put their kids in their tribes. And contemporary society really identifies race as the most important thing ever. And everything in modern schools and social media really stresses race as a means to differentiate children. So you have all these kids who are naturally curious and empathetic about everything, and then we adults put them into their boxes. The fixation on identity means that everyone else is the other. And thus there is tension. Little 3 year olds have it all figured out. Sadly, the parents get involved.[/quote] The opposite is true. Even infants notice racial differences. Three year olds are capable of bias. Read [i]Nurture Shock[/i]. It's important [i]not to avoid[/i] discussions about race if you want to raise a curious and empathetic human being. Your argument that contemporary society and media "others" people and causes tension is way off. The tension is caused by push back from people who are sick and tired of being marginalized. It's good tension.[/quote]
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