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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a 49 m and I find it very weird that men are put off by women with money. I make about $750,000 without trying too hard (and no alimony). I can take care of a woman financially, but that doesn't mean I want to. I adore my gf, but the one thing that makes me uncomfortable about our relationship is that she's financially insecure. I don't for a second think she's with me for my money, but I just don't like feeling like she's dependent on me.[/quote]

Yet you chose her over all the options of financially secure women you could have equally adored. You like that she is financially insecure. [/quote]

Yes, he liked her being dependent on him when the relationship began. He was in charge of their planning, budgeting all dates etc. 
Now he realizes that long term she has impediments to be fully integrated in his life. If she has a lower paying job, she can’t leave it to travel with him. She needs more support from him to being able to travel jointly etc. Or he would have to take on even larger financial commitments to make up  for her lost income and time. [/quote]

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