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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Surprised to see this thread pop back up.

He didn’t come back until very late that night, and stonewalled me and raged when I asked what happened. I finally had to just walk away because he was screaming so loud the kids woke up and I’m sure the neighbors heard. I’ll never know what did happen.

I’m very concerned about his mental health and dementia, but cannot get him to have a discussion about either. Since his disappearing day, he has scheduled two work trips and has randomly added last-minute days at the front or back of them.

It’s been better when he’s gone and it’s given me space to breathe, but the contrast when he comes back is awful. He’s nasty and combative all of the time regardless of the topic or setting. I might ask him to pass a fork or check the dryer load and he’ll accuse me of calling him stupid.

I don’t know what is wrong with him. I’m scared. I don’t yet have the resources to get out and get the kids somewhere else. I’m struggling to access all of our financial information but trying to download as much as I can so I have it all digitally in a safe place. I don’t know where we would go. We are in a high COL area and friends aren’t the kind who we could stay with.[/quote]

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