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Reply to "Wife dies and husband adopts their 1 year old out to the aunt."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For all you adoptive parents. Yes you are real parents and love your children and your children still love you. I'm sure you gave them Their bio parents most likely had great reasons for not parenting. However, none of that changes that your child may still feel abandoned or some kind of loss related to their bio parents. This is a very real thing.[/quote] Because there are weird people like some of the posters in this thread telling them that adoptive parents aren't real parents.[/quote] Literally no one is saying that. You are being willfully obtuse. Two things can be true. [b]This child was abandoned with no parent, and someone else stepped in to raise her and became her parent[/b]. [/quote] Again, this is a common circumstance, and indeed it (*family*) is the most common form of adoption. What world -- or neighborhood-- do people live in that they can't acknowledge this even when there are professionals on this thread who are telling you this? (Including me -- I am a paralegal working in family law the past 17 years.) [b]Dad does not want to -- or can't -- raise the child, [/b]so he places the child for legal adoption with a loving family member. [/quote] Piece of shit.[/quote] I bet that's what your ex says about you, but there are two sides to everything.[/quote] If you have to resort to personal insults on a thread about a random person, you really have nothing to add here. [/quote] Look at the pp-- you don't see the irony of your statement there? The basis for this whole thread is a personal attack by the Op! We're getting one side of a story by the person that doesn't even know the details.[/quote] Well, yeah? It's OPs thread. Relaying a story. We never have both sides on here. That's kind of the point. We can only respond to what OP heard and tells us. [/quote]
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