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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A friend told me my first dh was cheating on me. She was privy to the information because my ex used her and her dh as his alibi. We were all friends. I was SO GRATEFUL to this woman for having the balls to call me and tell me something I had actually suspected. I was lied to and gaslit by my ex. My df did me a huge favor. Decades later I am still glad she told me. She said she did not want to be complicit in the lie.[/quote]

But she was your friend. She told you out of concern for you, not for her own revenge or need to make things like pain equal. Their marriage was blown up, so in her mind, yours should too *because the sectet*. The secret is over already. [/quote]

So what if I want revenge? Doesn't the other woman deserve it? She inserted herself in my life and deserves to have hers blown up like she did mine. And her husband deserves to know what she is up to. [/quote]

His “deserves to know” is your revenge? What about HIM? That’s the very sick part of your plan. [/quote]

For sure the other spouse needed to know. Sorry but PP is right, but she needs to let it go now and move on. Get herself in a good position, and hopefully be done with this spouse/situation.[/quote]

Yep. Worry about no one else’s feelings and be the boss! [/quote]

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