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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Why would I feel guilt about the kids? My relationship has nothing to do with them. I have no interest in him leaving his family. I have no interest in “more” than we have now— I’m very busy with my career and friends and travel and do not want a marriage or even to have to deal with a man full time. I’m not hurting his kids.
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You are literally trash in human form. How does anyone with a nominally typical upbringing become so morally hollow?

Of course you are hurting his kids, by hurting their mother if nothing else.  But also - is he spending time with you that he could be spending with them?  Is he spending money on you that should be spent on his family? Is he short-tempered at home and starting fights because he has cognitive dissonance over his affair with you (this happens all the time)?[/quote]

He is spending time where he wants to. And money where he wants to. If there are fights at home, that is not my problem; there are no fights between us. [/quote]

Haaaaaaa. Why would there be fights?  /u see each other only a couple hours a month to bang.  [/quote]

We see each other almost every day. [/quote]

NP. Not on Christmas, Thanksgiving, holidays, family events, birthdays, work functions, children’s birthdays, life events. Because you’re not fit for family, colleagues, or respected friends and neighbors. He may sneak off to see you after-hours, but you are hidden away for the main events. Not fit. [/quote]

You are so desperately jealous you can’t stand it. We will be together on Christmas, and we have our Valentines Day reservations already for a night out of town. Don’t know what he’s telling her. Don’t care. Went to St Lucia for my birthday.

I have zero interest in his “neighbors” lol. But I know his best friend, who has always disliked the DW.

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So why doesn’t he want to be with you 24/7? There was the gloating AP on here that was a side piece for 10 years and always putting down the wife and how meant to be they were.  Then one day was unceremoniously dumped.  She was so upset and then angry.[/quote]

😆 I think I'm the "gloating AP" you're referring to -- except, no, I was not dumped.  We both divorced our spouses and are still together.  I never said we were meant to be, didn't get dumped, am not upset and angry, but I know I'm the one you're talking about because I've seen the evolution of this tale you've created over the years.  And even though I've corrected you before, you've got yourself convinced of this made-up story.  It's kind of fascinating how invested you are in this outcome you wish had happened.  [/quote]

NP.  It's kind of fascinating that you've read so many cheating threads on DCUM that you claim to recognize this other poster, believe she has processed and rewritten your life story, and is invested in repeating this false narrative.

If you do not feel guilty and are living happily ever after, why are you combing through the cheating posts?[/quote]

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