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As a man, I can tell you that so many divorced women post-40 are willing to bang without condoms and just a simple ask of “you’re clean, right?” without actually verifying my STD status by trading results. I insist on confoms and you can see the disappointment in their face.

I have a vasectomy. It’s like nectar to bees - women see it as an invite to disregard condoms from the get-go. They assume that because I am responsible enough to get a vasectomy, I’m also responsible enough to avoid catching an STD.[/quote]

Snipped man here and this is all true IME. [/quote]

As a sterile woman in my 40s I don’t believe it a bit. I still ask for both STD test AND condoms. All my single friends who ate dating /professional high income women in dmv are also using condoms for dating. Of course if exclusivity is confirmed everyone forgoes condoms. I’m told I’m a beauty so maybe men are more amenable to my terms. Or all these women from the apps you bang are desperate single moms waiting for whoever calls them back after a night of unprotected sex. I also never hook up and had sex with only a few men who actually dated me. Not those who invited to hang out at their place on date 2, without an actual date. [/quote]

“I’m told I’m a beauty”. Right. [/quote]

I mean, that’s what men text me after dates. Gorgeous, beauty, pretty.. [/quote]

👄 💨 🍑

They are trying to finagle an invite to the bedroom. The game is the game. [/quote]

100%. Men say this to every person they are willing to have sex with. I promise you are reading too much into your status as a “beauty”. [/quote]

I’m happy to post a bathing suit photo if you explain how - Imgur doesn’t work for me for some reason [/quote]

We require multiple angles. Upload here:
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Can’t show the full face here but sure, here are some.

https://ibb.co/QnCvK0N
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Np early 40s guy here. I’m not very picky at all. You’re at best average, not a ’beauty’[/quote]

Men underestimate their pickiness and entitlement. This google article below describes how an “average ” 40s woman  look like in a swimsuit.

https://themomedit.com/swim-shop-online-aerie-review-cute-swimsuits-bikinis-women-over-40-dressingroomselfies-laura/[/quote]

And one more link on averages: post age 40 an average BMI for a  woman  in the US is 30

https://www.statista.com/statistics/955068/adult-female-bmi-average-us-by-age/#:~:text=Average%20adult%20female%20BMI%20in,1999%20to%202016%2C%20by%20age&text=This%20statistic%20depicts%20the%20average,30.4%20as%20of%202015%2D2016.

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:shock: [/quote]

Just dry stats :) The woman from the posted gallery is average relative the news anchors, actresses, reality shows participants and Instagram influences he sees in mass media. But in reality the body is very much outside standard relative general US population. So we get it about misogyny that even women in good shape deal with on OLD.  A statistically likely fat guy would think a woman of 20-24 BMI is average at best and that he deserves a 20yo top model.

Here’s another gallery of “average looking” women that he uses as his benchmark standard:

https://www.quora.com/Why-do-average-women-feel-beautiful

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