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As a man, I can tell you that so many divorced women post-40 are willing to bang without condoms and just a simple ask of “you’re clean, right?” without actually verifying my STD status by trading results. I insist on confoms and you can see the disappointment in their face.

I have a vasectomy. It’s like nectar to bees - women see it as an invite to disregard condoms from the get-go. They assume that because I am responsible enough to get a vasectomy, I’m also responsible enough to avoid catching an STD.[/quote]

Snipped man here and this is all true IME. [/quote]

As a sterile woman in my 40s I don’t believe it a bit. I still ask for both STD test AND condoms. All my single friends who ate dating /professional high income women in dmv are also using condoms for dating. Of course if exclusivity is confirmed everyone forgoes condoms. I’m told I’m a beauty so maybe men are more amenable to my terms. Or all these women from the apps you bang are desperate single moms waiting for whoever calls them back after a night of unprotected sex. I also never hook up and had sex with only a few men who actually dated me. Not those who invited to hang out at their place on date 2, without an actual date. [/quote]

“I’m told I’m a beauty”. Right. [/quote]

I mean, that’s what men text me after dates. Gorgeous, beauty, pretty.. [/quote]

👄 💨 🍑

They are trying to finagle an invite to the bedroom. The game is the game. [/quote]

100%. Men say this to every person they are willing to have sex with. I promise you are reading too much into your status as a “beauty”. [/quote]

I’m happy to post a bathing suit photo if you explain how - Imgur doesn’t work for me for some reason [/quote]

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Can’t show the full face here but sure, here are some.

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Np early 40s guy here. I’m not very picky at all. You’re at best average, not a ’beauty’[/quote]

Men underestimate their pickiness and entitlement. This google article below describes how an “average ” 40s women look like in a swimsuit.

https://themomedit.com/swim-shop-online-aerie-review-cute-swimsuits-bikinis-women-over-40-dressingroomselfies-laura/[/quote]

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