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Reply to "Would you consider having a revenge affair/ fling if your spouse had an affair and you decided to stay together?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After my husband cheated on me, lied about it, and blew up our marriage, I put so much pressure on myself to get past it and get back to normal, even though he never really apologized. And it wasn't just what he'd done to me, it was that those things were symptomatic of larger patterns of lying, control, and entitlement. I wish I'd said "things are different now" and not continued to be available to him both sexually and emotionally instead of spending years trying to be ok. I think if you are not going to be monogamous, you should tell your spouse. But I don't think it's crazy to say, they broke the agreement and you are not obligated to abide by it. If they don't like that, they can be the one to end the marriage. [/quote] Curious, how did you find out about affair? [/quote]
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