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[quote=Anonymous]Op why don’t you sit with your wife and talk about your health goals and see what hers are without actively suggesting anything. If she does not want to lose weight and is obese then it’s totally fair how you feel; bc not only are you being asked to be attracted to someone very different in appearance from who you married, but you’re also being asked to tolerate someone risking their health and your family’s wellbeing overall. If she does want to lose weight then you can together set fitness goals and make exercising together part of the marriage, or help each other to carve out the time. If dh became obese I would not hesitate to sit down with him and discuss it - but prob before it got so bad that I lost all attraction [/quote]
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