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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]God some of you people are so snobbish and cruel. Many people in this world do not have a perfect life where they meet their spouse, get married, have 100k in the bank and then plan to get pregnant . I got pregnant in a similar situation to op and kept the baby. We got back together after baby was born - that was 7 years ago and we are about as happy as the other couples I know who had babies on purpose. We both have good jobs and are providing a nice stable life for our child. But I guess a lot of you think I ought to have had an abortion? My body, my choice and luckily there is no law about how much money you have to have in the bank to become a mom. Op also keep in mind some of these posters are jealous infertile harpies - they can’t get pregnant even though they “deserve it” and it enrages them a woman who “doesn’t deserve it” gets to have a baby when they don’t. [/quote] 99.9% of people are not like you. Good for you the situation turned out well. That's not the norm and clearly OP and her ex do not get along nor do they want to be connected FOR LIFE raising a baby they don't want. They knew each for TWO MONTHS. You really think it's the best "Hey, let's just take a chance and have a baby and maybe we'll get together again...". This isn't a pet. It's a baby that needs real parents. Neither OP or her ex are ready for that.[/quote] You are making judgemental assumptions. People change after having a kid together. [/quote] This is laughable. It's two people who dated for two months and realized they didn't like each other. Now, just because a baby is coming they are going to fall in love? LOL, you need to stop watching movies. The fact OP got pregnant two months into dating is a red flag she's not ready to raise a kid.[/quote]
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