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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your 16 year old daughter fears that she will get cancer.

Your 16 year old daughter fears that you will abandon her due to your cancer.

Your 16 year old cannot cope with your cancer and hates that your cancer has dominated her life.

OP, cancer, not your daughter, is the enemy.

Coping with harsh realities affects individuals differently.

OP, you hate your cancer and you hate what cancer has done to your life, your marriage, and to your relationship with your daughter.

OP, the first step is to correctly identify the enemy, and the enemy is not your daughter.[/quote]

You are making a lot of assumptions, PP. Sometimes (often, actually) - teens are just really, really hard on the parents. It’s common.[/quote]

And unfortunately some personality disordered parents are just “really, really hard” on their kids. It’s common. [/quote]

+10million.  [/quote]

Maybe because they were irreparably damaged by their own parents. In that way nobody is ever wrong, nobody asks to be born. [/quote]

This is true, but someone comes along to break the chain.  My mom was totally disorders.  I made huge strides not to be and I am not.  My mother criticized me for taking parenting classes, saying she didn’t “need” them.  I responded “well, I think I do”.  At the same time I was thinking ‘uh, yeah, you absolutely did need them!  I had a terrible example and that is why I need them’. But I didn’t actually say what I thought.  I have 2 kids through this stage, one in this stage, and one younger.  I think I’m doing well.  No, I would never say something as hurtful as OP did.  I actually very much love my kids and they know it, even though and especially when we fight.  No one has ever said they hate anyone in our house.[/quote]

So when you were in remission from cancer did you not miss a beat?[/quote]

You folks keep making apologies for a mother who said she hated her child and meant it. Totally messed up.[/quote]

WHO HAS CANCER!

The kid is a fxxx up. A MEAN GIRL.

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So cancer means never having to say you’re sorry?[/quote]

So being a brat means not having to be nice to your possibly terminally I'll mother?[/quote]

Amazing that you keep justifying the sh***ty behavior of an adult.[/quote]

Amazing that you miss that the mother is completely self aware. This isn't your mom that you have unresolved issues with, no need to keep rage posting and beating a dead horse.[/quote]

I'm sorry you have trouble with your children.  You really can frame the relationship to be more positive.  You'll just have to do better.  [/quote]

I'm sorry you don't get along with your parents. You're an adult now, why is it so hard? Seek help, posting here isn't going to help you heal.[/quote]

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