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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, this is not the right venue for a sympathetic ear. Remember, DCUM is filled with women just like your SIL. they are going to empathize with her here, and not you, because they hate their ILs too.

OP, is your mother/extended family less well off than SIL's? If so, that is your answer right there. SIL is not trying to have middle class Christmas while all the school Joneses are Christmasing in Palm Beach. There isn't any way to slice it, you've lost, a primary feature of UMC people is that family only matters when the family is equally rich or willing to spend to look it, or richer and willing to share fringe benefits (like invitations to ski or beach houses). Then, its "family is everything" otherwise, it is "family is awful, unsupportive and dysfunctional and we cannot bear to spend another holiday with them."

Good luck, [/quote]

[b]Another jealous harpy. Can’t stand it when anyone else is wealthier, prettier, more in-demand. Which must happen a lot.[/b] [/quote]

I'm this PP. Sadly, I am not a jealous harpy, but as usual, the rich women love to come out and whine about how anyone who criticizes anything they do must be jealous. It couldn't possibly be that there is any truth in my comment....right? Fwiw, I'm UMC and sometimes travel at the holidays plus private school, so I'm not making all this up. Just commenting on the cultural quirks that I observe around me. I know having your lifestyle and choices criticized doesn't feel good, but if it makes your feel badly, that's on you to honestly ask yourself why and the answer cannot always be someone is jealous. Oftentimes, the answer is, you might suck. [/quote]

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