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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OW: did your coworkers not catch on?

Since all this has come out I've been so careful and more guarded about interactions, and I've notice who is close to who and so on. And I'm embarrassed around his coworkers because I wonder if they picked up on it.Just wondering if you think your transfer had anything to do it?

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Transfer was completely unrelated.

Im not sure if anyone noticed.  Maybe, but I bet nothing definite.

As far as how we talked about our spouses: yes, there was a level of complaints but Nothing like "he/she is terrible".  There was no name calling etc. We were all friends so I liked her, he got along with DH and we both new some of the limitationS of each others' spouses. But it was never nasty just things like "I wish DH would talk to me" "I wish DW could relax and have fun" etc.  [/quote]

This thread is long so maybe you already answered but did your friend (the wife) and you ever talk? Is she friends with your husband? Are your husbands friends? Just puzzled how this all works. In our case our spuses didn't know each other and though I knew her we weren't friends (didn't know her that well since she worked with my h)[/quote]

We haven't talked since the day we were found out, but yes, we were casual friends.  She knows my husband and we all would have dinner together etc.  It was an awful end to it all. [/quote]

Well, it doesn't sound like the end yet. Hopefully you both will have stronger marriages and everyone will take this time for some self reflection. The thing about an EA, it's not just what your spouse is not giving you, it's one you are looking for in someone else that you should be providing for yourself. Sure, some of it is about what you are missing in marriage: intimacy,  emotional connection, but it's at least somewhat about having someone else boost your self worth. Having someone else make you feel good when that falling-in-love phase in your relationships has ended. [/quote]

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