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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think people are being very hard on OP DH because his interest is in the location/lifestyle.

What if DH got is dream job in another place? Would that be worth OP considering a move? Or is that also "selfish"?

If it's different, then why is a job move more legitimate than one based on (perceived) quality of life, preferences etc?[/quote]

well yeah, if he started applying to dream jobs outside of DC without coming to some kind of agreement first with OP, that’s a huge problem. With a house and kids, the status quo matters. You don’t just get to decide to upend it to “follow your dreams.”

as well, the DH has a lot of options to pursue his passions while being based in DC and he’s rejected then.

I kind of think the slow-fade others have suggested makes sense if he’s really insistent and is making the marriage unstable. Let him move, on his own, to the rural paradise with a vague promise from OP to see if she can find a job there. Keep the kids with OP in DC. [/quote]

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