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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I used to think that I’d like to be told if I were ever in your friend’s situation, but now I am not sure. Kida are young, I am a SAHM so I’m financially dependent on DH… Honestly, I’d rather not know. But if no kids or adult kids, then yea, I’d like to know. 
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If you find out because you end up with an STI, well, that's one hell of a way to get the news. Don't think it can't happen to you, PP.

You'd rather not know that your life - not just your DH's life, yours, every day, all day long -- is a lie?

I'd rather know ASAP and have all the information I needed to make decisions [i]for myself, about my own future[/i] and that of my kids (even if that decision is to stay with cheater DH after he ends the affair(s) and does the work of being an actual stand-up man).

Cheaters, through their secrets, deprive their betrayed spouses of the ability to have full agency over their own lives.

If you think "ignorance is bliss," well, keep thinking you'd rather not know about cheating. If you want to be an adult who has the dignity of choosing your own path in life, painful though it may be, rather than having it secretly chosen FOR you and foisted onto you, then you'd want to know. [/quote]

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