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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I grew up in the Midwest in an area where going to college was the expectation, but very little prestige given to this school over that. People mostly went public.

But .. there was also an expectation that kids got cars over their own in their teen years (new, nice cars). People cared indeed about brand names. People got married pretty young, bought an home at 30,  and had their 3 or 4 kids by the time they were in their mid 30.

My parents were east coast transplants and we had to use the family car when it was free and applied to colleges further afield. We all went to Ivy League schools (in the day when it wasn’t that hard for full pay kids).

And now I live in Brooklyn and see this mania up close.

But as I watch my Midwest friends repeating this cycle I think, that’s a better way.  It’s weird how this college thing overtakes a childhood. My old friends had more kids, roomy houses, less financial stress, got a lake house in MI or WI, are on track for retirement, and their kids had carefree childhoods. They all have fulfilling jobs. Their kids will too.

Why do we do this?[/quote]
 
This is so interesting. What do you think is going on? [/quote]

Same. I actually think my senior DD would love the midwestern university in the town I grew up in. She has toured and does like it but is influenced by the culture here and thinks that because it has a high acceptance rate it isn’t as good as schools with a lower acceptance rate.  She could just pick this school and enjoy her senior year and also enjoy her college experience.  [/quote]

She is correct in that her academic cohort at a lower ranked / acceptance rate college is definitely for the most part, going to be inferior, regardless of the standard of teaching / research at the college. [/quote]

40% of kids at Williams, Amherst etc all recruited athletes.  Why do people still buy this?[/quote]

But Williams and Amherst are D3 which means they value academics and those athletes have to get in first. They're not dumb University of Alabama jocks. My DD was recruited at Johns Hopkins. The coach told her if she didn't have a 1460 SAT he couldn't even begin conversations with her. And conversations with her did not mean she'd get in. Just that he wasn't about to waste his time. These top LACs are like that with their athletes. She had to get a pre-read and then apply. These schools don't admit athletes who cannot cut it academically. You're thinking of D1 and D2.[/quote]

Well that is unique to Hopkins or to your daughter.  I know Ivy recruits this past year who were recruited with SATs well below 1400.  I'm related to one.  I know  several others because I coach in the sport.  [/quote]

My kid was recruited at Carnegie Mellon and Swarthmore and they wanted top scores before they considered them[/quote]

This was our experience with Williams too. And those top scores only got the coach to consider you, did not get you in, or get the coach to add you to the team. [/quote]

when you say top scores, you mean top scores at these schools? or do you mean they need to see average SAT scores for the school, which is well over 1500.  (at our private school, you get a 1500 and you're told to take it again if you want these kinds of schools).

we have a country full of musicians and actors and math kids and kids who hold down real jobs that would love to have been told, you have to meet the average SAT scores before you get a tip. yeah, bring that on.

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