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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Former OW here and I really never thought about the BW as a rival or wanted her life. If I thought about her it was mostly in an impersonal way thinking how different her inside vs outside lives were, and what it was like for her to know about us (we all knew about each other) and how she (and he) managed to compartmentalize to maintain their apparently very positive marriage and parenting alliance & luxury lifestyle. My involvement was with her DH not her. They are still married. It looks crazy now when I look back on it but at the time he had emotional hooks into me long before it turned sexual, so I put up with the compromise. Learned a ton but at great cost.[/quote] Are you certain she knew? That’s a common lie told to APs- she knows and us ok with it, it’s an open marriage, etc. which is just another complete lie.[/quote]
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