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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is the OP going to chase down all of her husband's affair partners? Because this particular mistress probably wasn't the first and definitely won't be the last. [b]The marriage is clearly lacking if he's screwing around on her[/b]. The "remorse" that he's showing will wear off and he'll be back on the apps looking for strange once he thinks the coast is clear. *shrug*[/quote]

It is the dh who is lacking character by cheating. Op has abided his cheating and he will never leave her. It's not an ideal relationship to many of us, but it is a strong one. I couldn't stay with a cheater, but I was raised by a cheating father and a mother who put up with it. Their marriage lasted through cheating. Eventually, my dad settled down and my mom enjoyed 30 more years without him cheating. [b]They died 3 months apart, having been married 50 years[/b].[/quote]

This isn't a love story. Your mom was a chump with low self esteem.[/quote]
I wasn't presenting it as a love story. It was an example of a marriage lasting through infidelity. You missed where I said I wouldn't stay with a cheater. My mom was a lot of things, but she wasn't a chump. She knew exactly what was up and she was ride or die for my dad, even to the exclusion of their kids' feelings. I 100% do not recommend, but if op wants her dh for life, she has him because it is hard for anyone to walk away from unconditional love. And, yes, I know it's not ideal.[/quote]

Your mom was a loser. He only stopped cheating because he got too old. Disgusting. [/quote]
He was 43 when he stopped, so not too old. My mom wasn't a loser, [b]she was hopelessly in love with my dad[/b]. Believe me, their fockery messed up my childhood. That said, they had 30 years without cheating and were devoted to each other. [/quote]

Too bad he didn't feel the same. Never be the one who is more in love. Pathetic actually.

If a man sticks his penis in others...I wouldn't be hopelessly in love.

Your mom had VERY low self esteem.[/quote]

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