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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Affairs are very much about getting scraps/breadcrumbs of love and I think pp understands that.  that dynamic is why they happen- you don’t think you need or deserve better than someone’s scraps.  For me I just thought I wanted something sexual and when I started feeling things for the person I went into a complete panic, because I wanted whatever they could give me and I knew it would end terribly.[/quote]

Not necessarily true. You can live with a man for 20 years and have no idea how he is capable to love someone else. He gives himself all to the AP. In this case, it is the wife who gets scraps. But it also depends on your values. I value true feelings and a moment. If you value your house, retirement account, and other assets, then maybe you are correct, the AP is getting scraps. But putting finances aside, I think AP is getting a true and genuine relationship (assuming the man is open that he is married).[/quote]

Interesting. I never thought about it this way.[/quote]

Because the person is a complete loon:

[quote]But it also depends on your values. I value true feelings and a moment.[quote] [/quote] :lol:  :lol:  :lol:  :lol:

I'm guessing she means [/i][b]her[/b][i] true feelings because a guy that bangs her and doesn't take her out to be seen, nor to hospital if she falls ill or spends holidays and introduces her to his family...is not showing true feelings.  He's escaping reality and in limerence until he showers off any trace of her and slams the hotel door.

So she better value that "Marriott moment"...and the future 'moments' from other married men that disappear.[/quote]

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