Reply to Holding my boundary. Let him be mad.

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Holding my boundary. Let him be mad."

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sweet lord don’t have any more kids. We have 3 kids and both of us were up at 6:45 this morning so we could get to an 8am game for our middle child. One of us got up to get her there and the other one got up to get the other 2 kids ready and meet them at the game.

I can’t imagine tit for tat every weekend. [/quote]
You can’t imagine parents agreeing to have a couple of hours to themselves each week (obviously not at the same time as a game) and one parent insisting that the other stick to the arrangement they made? Really? [/quote]

NP but I can't imagine the tit for tat OP has going on, and that's what the PP said.

My husband and I also trade off (i.e. one of us does the dogs Monday mornings, one of us does the kids, then Tuesday we switch, etc.). Same with weekends - one of us wakes up and does the dogs and kids while the other gets to sleep in. But it's only for a few hours in the morning, not all day. Also, for example, on Friday night he ended up going over to a friend's house at the last minute because another friend popped into town so I decided to get up the next morning so he could sleep in since he was having the later night. Not a big deal. OP and her husband sound like they hate each other. Who wants to live like that? She'd have a lot more me time if she got divorced, and then, bonus, she wouldn't have to live with someone she so clearly dislikes. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics