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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP -

Just curious, are you a man or a woman?

After reading this very interesting thread, I got to thinking that men and women must use different techniques if they are trying to seduce someone of the opposite sex.  Men and women also have different ideas of what will work on them.

Women on this thread have greatly inputted what works to seduce them, but what if a woman wants to seduce a man?  How does she realistically do that?  After all men are not always the chasers.  Sometimes the woman is the one going after the man.[/quote]

im a man.

im not rico suave though so i havent been the one giving advice or anything.

and i would think a woman would be hesitant in a work environment to seduce someone at the office. especially a married man, even if they are married. thats just my guess.

thats why i started the thread to sort of get an idea of the thoughts of both sides[/quote]

I am a married woman and I have been interested in an affair with married men.  I think women are more subtle then men when they are interested.  The sticky situation for a woman is the fine line of not being too subtle that the man doesn't get your point or too bold that the man is turned off because you seem too needy, aggressive, etc.

The first thing a woman does if she wants to attract a man is wear outfits that makes her look good (in work place, not too sexy to be unprofessional, but flattering enough to get a man's attention).  If she needs to loose a few pounds, she will start dieting and exercising more to improve her appearance and desirability.  She may change her hair, get manicures, etc. to present herself in the best light as possible.

After all this, the woman will begin to interact more with her targeted man.  Correct me if I am wrong, but I think men tend to be attracted to women who are easy to talk to and have personal self confidence.  If I know a man is into a particular sport, I may use that as a topic of conversation to start up with.  Once a man is comfortable with talking with you, I have been surprised as to what they reveal about themselves and their personal lives.  Once the topic gets personal, if it swings to sexual topics, then man is hooked and affair can start.

OP - as a man, what do you think?  Would this work on you? [/quote]

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